Children development begins in such an early age, that what we reflect in everyday live is what they consume and stay in their memory. They are just like sponge, absorb everything and except anything. Do you ever realize that a simple face gesture can make a child feel so happy and so sad. We as adult tend to caught up with our daily life and most of the time feels tired and weary. We tend to bring those looks to our house. Let say you come into the room, and there were your kids. They are playing or just doing they stuff. Then we come along with that tired and don’t speak to me look. It bound to make them sad or just its’s-not-the-time-to-talk thought. So think about what your faces will affect our kids in the future, because it says a lot.
My mother in her time doing 3 jobs and coming home all tired and more stuff to do at home-after she had another child it got worst because most of the time that me and my bother spent are with the baby sitter. SO we didn’t talk most of the time and all my memories about my childhood are all the scolding about how bad my grades are and how often I got abusive attitude verbal and physical.
It thought me to spend time with my kids and really talk with them, and not talk at them. After a long day teaching, and although it is such a hard work and sometimes I do push it. I pretend to be happy and put on a happy face in front of them. I can look horrible in my own room. Try not to take it on the kids is really the key. It only takes about 15 minute to greet everyone and walk to my room, and rest, after a long bath thing will be better. Honestly, life is such as waste to be complaining about. By doing this you also have a more positive attitude to difficulties.
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