Hadiah Cowok........

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Oprah Show

We have Oprah Show in Indonesia around early 2006, I always heard about the remarkable lady but I don’t have cable so it is difficult to know her. When one of the TV station aired her show, I try to watch ever chance I can. Some of my post is a contribution based on her show, it is only natural that I gave credit to her and her crew. I love decorating with nate, talking about money issue, cooking with Rachel and my favorite is dr.Robin. She was the only that make me understand about myself and save me a lot of money to go to a psychology.

It took me awhile to understand that most of the time, when she is talking with the guess she often asks about their childhood and always able to find the root for most of our behaviors comes from the past. We need to find it out and face it, and then we can end the cycle and not pass it to our kids.

She is my finest inspiration, although the whole package it self was very helpful. I want Oprah to know it inspire me too.

Spending quality time

My husband is a game freak, well he is very attract with his computer, in the early days when we are still friends, he was the one that influence me to play computer games, although the only thing I like is playing sims.

I don’t want my kids to spend all their spare time on the computer, although he always support these desire. I grew with books, my mom used to take me to the library and just spend the whole day there, so yeah. I love books.

Reading to your kids at the early age not only its is a great way to communicate with them, but it also taught them to get used to words, making sentence and growing the passion for reading. I know most of my students a hooked on computer games, play station or other stuff like that. Reading actually will benefit them in the future, especially when they have to read a lot for school.

So…..begin young is important, plus it is fun.

It’s OK to be not perfect

I’m trying so hard to be a good girl, so my parents will spend time with me, and like listening my mind, of course that never happens. So, I have this feeling of I’m not good enough to love. Those thought I carried until I’m married, try to be the perfect mom and wife – in reality of course there is no such thing as perfect – because that is human.

I’m trying to encourage my kids to except their failure and encourage trying harder and what is more important. If they do something wrong, I try to make the punishment educative and not pressing their self confident. I also try not to try too hard on being perfect. So our family has a wonderful time making mistakes………..

Looking in the mirror

Children is our reflection, they are a little us. An abusive father tends to produce abusive children when they are growing up. An anorexia girl is possibly having an anorexia mom, well…at least mother who is not satisfied with her appearance. So, when you yourself have an unexplainable attitude that you are aware that it is bad. Then you need to look deep into your past and find that missing chapter that maybe you have it from your parents, despite that your deep love for them. Because finding out what is your flues is and important info, because you can stop the cycle and prevent the same thing to your kids.

Like my mom and me about the weight issue. I try not to complain about it in front of them, well…….if I look myself in the mirror in my room, sometimes those feeling of dissatisfaction come-though it’s useless we still do it. I’m trying to recover from that…well I’m not perfect

What we do, our kids do it too.

It is important to remember that, what we think is an adult thought or conversation is really what the kids pick up. They are sponge and the filter to distinguish between oh this is for adult and oh this is for me. Doesn’t imply. That is probable why kids these days grow up fast and tend to have mature behavior regardless to their age. This we must pay attention to. Get into the children world and eyes, and its ok to act foolish and childish in front of your kids.

My mom always complaining about her weight and this happen also to me and my sister. Though I love my mom, but I try to be more grateful with how god created me-and don’t complain much. It also something that I teach my kids, they should appreciate everything they have and that having themselves is enough.