Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Hadiah Cowok........
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Sunday, April 8, 2007
Oprah Show
We have Oprah Show in
It took me awhile to understand that most of the time, when she is talking with the guess she often asks about their childhood and always able to find the root for most of our behaviors comes from the past. We need to find it out and face it, and then we can end the cycle and not pass it to our kids.
She is my finest inspiration, although the whole package it self was very helpful. I want Oprah to know it inspire me too.
Spending quality time
My husband is a game freak, well he is very attract with his computer, in the early days when we are still friends, he was the one that influence me to play computer games, although the only thing I like is playing sims.
I don’t want my kids to spend all their spare time on the computer, although he always support these desire. I grew with books, my mom used to take me to the library and just spend the whole day there, so yeah. I love books.
Reading to your kids at the early age not only its is a great way to communicate with them, but it also taught them to get used to words, making sentence and growing the passion for reading. I know most of my students a hooked on computer games, play station or other stuff like that.
So…..begin young is important, plus it is fun.
It’s OK to be not perfect
I’m trying so hard to be a good girl, so my parents will spend time with me, and like listening my mind, of course that never happens. So, I have this feeling of I’m not good enough to love. Those thought I carried until I’m married, try to be the perfect mom and wife – in reality of course there is no such thing as perfect – because that is human.
I’m trying to encourage my kids to except their failure and encourage trying harder and what is more important. If they do something wrong, I try to make the punishment educative and not pressing their self confident. I also try not to try too hard on being perfect. So our family has a wonderful time making mistakes………..
Looking in the mirror
Children is our reflection, they are a little us. An abusive father tends to produce abusive children when they are growing up. An anorexia girl is possibly having an anorexia mom, well…at least mother who is not satisfied with her appearance. So, when you yourself have an unexplainable attitude that you are aware that it is bad. Then you need to look deep into your past and find that missing chapter that maybe you have it from your parents, despite that your deep love for them. Because finding out what is your flues is and important info, because you can stop the cycle and prevent the same thing to your kids.
Like my mom and me about the weight issue. I try not to complain about it in front of them, well…….if I look myself in the mirror in my room, sometimes those feeling of dissatisfaction come-though it’s useless we still do it. I’m trying to recover from that…well I’m not perfect
